goals

  • Ebbs and Flows: Two Things True Simultaneously

    Negative self-talk, shame, and comparison don’t serve me in working towards my goals. It also doesn’t help to completely let myself off the hook every day and say, “oh well.” No book manuscript will get finished this way. Continue reading

    Ebbs and Flows: Two Things True Simultaneously
  • Don’t Fall for Your Own Bullshit

    Everyone needs voices and relationships in your life that call you on your own bullshit. Okay, I won’t speak for you. But I will speak for me. Continue reading

    Don’t Fall for Your Own Bullshit
  • Expectation vs. Hope

    Expectations often work as demands, while hope is willing to suffer through the messiness of life and disappointments without giving up. Expectations clench things tightly in a fist, while hope holds hands open, willing to surrender. Continue reading

    Expectation vs. Hope